Next Monday, Cody and I will celebrate 2 years of marriage. wow, TWO YEARS!! I can’t believe it. So much has happened, it’s crazy! I’m sure you (the reader) are expecting me to elaborate on how much I love Cody and all that gushy stuff….well, I’m not. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m so in love with Cody! Life today is even more sweet and cherished than it was two years ago! But, I’m going to talk about my bridesmaids….all 9 of them :)
If some of you don’t know, Cody and I just bought our first house. Yes, it’s exciting and couldn’t be happier, but with moving/buying a new place comes boxes…LOTS of them. Honestly, in our old place we could barely move around, never mind enjoy our ‘things’ we had stored in the guest room of our 1st place. Well, now that’s not the case. We have tons of room (so grateful) and TWO guest rooms now (come stay!!) But, as is our fashion, we always have a ‘drop area’. You know what I mean, a place where you just put stuff for “a later time” to rifle through or organize, but in the meantime you shut the door! Yes, well we surely have one of those. It’s our upstairs guest bedroom. This holds everything that encompassed our ‘home office’, Cody’s closet and all things that didn’t find a home in the previous house and subsequently have still not found a home here! Well, the day finally came (today) to UNPACK THIS ROOM!! This afternoon, I started in on the pilgrimage to my perfectly unpacked and clean room mecca! Boy, it was a task…quite the journey! But, I had a blast in the process! (I’ll post pictures later, when there is actually something in the room…it’s empty—praise God – right now!)
Ok, that’s enough backstory…as Cody would so kindly say, “please get to the point!” Well in the midst of this glorious trip, and yes, I say trip, because this was a serious journey down memory lane! Boxes of old pictures, old cards, clothes, etc. (Here comes the point, I promise)…In the midst of all this, I found this!
(For those of you who don’t know, this was a scrapbook my bridesmaids made me and gave me a few nights before my wedding)
I was able to sit and look through it and just appreciate everything that was written and all the fabulous creativity that was put in it! Now, I can’t think of who to start with, so I’ll just go in the order they appear in the book. First up, Bailey!
Bailey Alexandra Smith Hulslander, friends since 6 months of age. I can’t believe we are still friends, today. Even as college and moving has drawn us away from one another, you are considered a best friend of mine. You were so much of my childhood! So many memories I have consist of the fabulous times we had; from Wellington Academy, McDonald’s birthday parties, to playing dress up, gymnastics, to the Three Stooges and Odyssey of the Mind. We’ve been through Sarah Plain and Tall, first kisses and 5th grade together! And let’s be serious, we were basically sisters…we even had the blonde hair and fair skin to match :) I think of you often and I’m so proud of the woman you are today! No doubt you are as an amazing wife, to Ryan, as you were a friend to me. Love you, Moe! Love, Larry :)
Tara Morgan Propp Morris, friends since I was 5 years old (about 1988). Tara, my goodness….two words, Hartland Street. You were my first friend when we moved to our new home and I can’t believe we are still friends. We had so much fun together…you seriously were my childhood! In every memory I have, we were always having fun and laughing! I’ll never forget the ‘fancy lady dress up tea party’, when Ramsey and I first learned the word prostitute on the bus (hahahaha, thank you public school) your white knee socks, REBELS cheerleading, the Estero Beach Club, the skating rink,, missions trips, concerts with our moms and ski trips!! Your family, was and is, truly my family. You are beautiful, inside and out, and I’m so grateful God gave you and your family to mine. I can’t wait until we’re all old and talking about those silly stories in Oakbrook! I miss you terribly; I wish Indiana wasn’t so far away!! So happy we’re penpals :) Love you, TP! Did we seriously meet Jerry Springer outside of Cracker Barrel?!?!
Emily Jean Millage, friends since 8th grade. I can’t even write this without tearing up! How to do you say thank you to someone God gave to you as the sister you always wanted? Em, you get me. Plain and simple. You are my biggest cheerleader and you have always been used by the Lord to show me the woman He sees me as and created me to be. Your thoughtfulness is beyond words. Even when you were in Korea, you sent Cody and I a 1 year anniversary present!! I am so honored to call you my best friend. Thank you for the late night AIM chats and phone calls our freshman year of college. God used you to draw me back to Him and that is something that counts for eternity! Even though we get separated, often, we pick up right back where we started! To even start listing our jokes would be trite, this blog would get much longer than it already is! Thank you for accepting me exactly as I am and encouraging me to be me every moment! You are my sister and I love you so much I basically married the male version of you :) Thank you for being you! God’s plan for your life has been and will be amazing and out of control…can’t wait to be there there whole time! Love you, emma. Love, Kazoo (hahahahahahahaha)
Ashley Dawn Cherilla, friends since Junior year of college. Ash, what can I say, you are Cody’s best friend and I knew you were going to be mine, too. Laughter and Tears…those are our two words. Hahaha. whenever we were together we were doing one of those two! My last college roommate and there for all the craziness! I’ll never forget our talks, we could write a flippin’ book!! God used you to keep me close to His heart when life was horrible and to share in the laughter of all the rest! College, concerts, cooking and cranium! …..so much more, I can’t even begin to write it! You are K-fed to my Britney :) Watching Friends until 3am, that one night we had dinner at the bar of Waterstone Pizza, collecting Pashmina scarves, POG, TrueID, South of the Border, going to the club in Roanoke, those hussies decorating OUR Christmas Tree!! It has been a sheer joy to be there for you when you were laughing or crying J 135 Primrose forever. Take care of Florida for me (and Matt Wertz)! Love you, Perscilla Cherilla!
Abigail Michelle Reighard, friends since Senior year of college. The Thanksgiving Flight that changed our lives J With the same middle name and love for designer labels, how could our friendship not bloom! You are truly my soulmate! Your heart is so kind, it inspires me to love others! The cards you wrote me for each day I was in Haiti was more of a Godsend than you will ever know—God used them to keep me going EACH day I was there. You have the most incredible strength I have ever known and yet you never complain. You are my inspiration and my role model. You are more than just beautiful, you are STUNNING and have the incredible heart to match your gorgeous self! 734 and POG. You made our senior year fabulous!! I miss you more each day we are apart! I get giddy just thinking of how God will use you and your story—you are incredible and one of a kind! Thank you for my Ramones shirt and teaching me to love as Christ loves us! “There’s a 30% chance it’s already raining”! LIPS!!!!!! I love you, Regina! Love, Karen
Lindsay Marie Crosby, friends since Senior year of college. Cady, you are so much fun! Every time we were together we were probably getting in trouble and laughing about it! The night I was skanky Britney Spears and you were Slash from Guns-N-Roses, our destiny of friendship began! You are beautiful and probably the only home-schooled person I know who is normal, with the exception of Lindsey Lohan (no offense to home schoolers)! You can always make me laugh and let loose! Thank you for your humor and just letting me be stupid with you! You have an uncanny ability to make any shirt (ugly or cute) look fabulous! I loved our first trip to the monogram and the photo shoot that ensued afterwards!! Nashville is still one of my favorite memories from college! We had too much fun…especially with your sketchy relationship and then Beth thinking I liked him!! Ummm YES, ummm NO! We even looked hot in those gay shirts! You are truly the easiest person to be around and I miss you so much! God has been and still is using you in great ways! Tell Karen Kingsballs, hi for me and Abs! J I love you, Bing!
Jessica Ream Beckles, friends since 2005 (otherwise known as the year Cody and I started dating). Our, now husbands, then boyfriends are best friends, so how could we not be friends?! It seems we are the final ‘better halves’ of 333 Stafford! We have had such a great time being “house moms” to our boys! You and Cedric are Cody and I’s only hope of getting some color in our family tree, so we’re praying your gorgeous daughter will have a thing for our pale red-headed son! J Thank you for being there for everything and keeping us all together (especially our Sunday Family Dinners). It’s been such an incredible joy to see how God has worked in your life and seeing your immense growth! You’re probably the only girl I know who would hop a plane to change her entire wedding to the Bahamas, just for her man. You have incredible strength and determination…not to mention a fabulous ability to make the perfect sweet tea!! Thanks for all the yummy recipes and scrapbooking tips! Love you, Jess!
Danielle Rae McCarthy Ware, friends since my first day at Liberty University! My goodness, we’ve been through it all! You were there the night I came home from my first date with Cody and listened to me cry when we broke up (EACH time!) You are the most compassionate woman I have known and I love you dearly! We have had some insane times together…even as most recent as our tornado scares! Dani, we are such opposites, but God drew us together and we complement one another so well! You and I could, seriously, talk for days! I’ll never forget that first night at Liberty! God used you to reassure me that I was exactly where He wanted me to be, that night! You have challenged me and God has used you to sharpen me, “as iron sharpens iron”. You are my favorite little Italian Mexican! J You know what’s so ironic, that phrase from Forever 21 basically fits everything we’ve gone through “umm, did that seriously just happen?” Tell Alexi I’m sorry for being a horrible influence with his credit card J I think it goes without saying that Liberty would not have been the same without you! We thought we owned that place; we were so crazy! You are such a beauty and I’m grateful God knew to put you in my life J Love you, Dani!
Brooke Maclarion Lee, friends since my brother brought her to meet the family! My sister in law! Brooke, you have been a wonderful addition to our family. God knew exactly who could keep up with my brother! The strength you have is incredible, you are a strong woman! I’m so proud of you and I’m so grateful for your determination in your marriage. You are truly a beautiful example of grace! Thank you for being a part of our special day and always supporting Cody and I! I wish we lived closer! Until then, we’ll have to just enjoy our crazy family vacations (ours might be the only family to go to and actually ENJOY a woolie worm festival) Our family is crazy and I’m glad you can keep up with us J Thank you for giving me a beautiful niece! You’re a great momma! I Love you, Brooke
Girls, with 9 of you, it was hard to get you as wonderful a gift as I wanted to buy each of you! I hope you knew (2 years ago) and still know today how much I love you and cherish your friendship! Thank you for everything! LOVE YOU!!
And p.s. I had the most gorgeous group of ladies stand by me!!